physic bond?

hello all

this is my first post to this forum but i needed to ask a quesion

iv always been interested in the afterlife and magic etc and have brought the magazine for years now, but  2 weeks ago i plucked up the courage to see a medium.

HE was fantastic and came out with things that confimed to me that that he was for real. Any way to get to the point he asked me to pick out a hand ful of runes and one of them was blank which told him i had a strong bond to the psychic world, he also said i had a male sprit around me someone im my generation who had passed before his time.

he pulled out a pack of cards i think there are called zenna cards, they are used to test your psychic skills, in the end i had picked out his card correctly

i asked how i would develop this and he suggested learning things i was interested in as fun not a chore and i would develop that way but i seem to be in a dead end i am goin to buy a crystal book as i have always loved them since i was little but i dont know how else to develop my skill, plus i cant get this male spirit out of my head, is he my spirit guide? how do i contact him?

i would be grateful if anyone could help me or point me in the right dirrection and thank you for reading this

best wishes

xxx