Help for my 7 yr old son

Good morning.

If it's any consolation, I was the same.  A bit distant from everyone else.  I'd ask kids to play with me and they told me they would rather play with someone else.  I did get invited to parties as I remember, but in spite of this, I was still very much a loner and an outcast.  Apparently, I'm an old soul too.  I would be watching others more than participating with them.  A bit like what a Spiritual Guide does.  They watch, and only participate when invited to do so.  It's possible that your son in his far furture may evolve to be a Spiritual Guide when he reaches heaven.          

As for the spell, try this.

Please, good spirits, don't let my son be sad and blue     

Let him enjoy and have fun at school

Please remember when you cast to be in a positive frame of mind or the spell will have the opposite effect.

I help this helps you.

Let me know how you both get on.

Farewell, for now.

hi about your son it sounds like he may be a bit on the quite side nothing wrong with that except bullies notice things like that ever thought of enrolling your son in a boxing club  or a karate club word soon spreada he will become a lot more popular i gaurentee it  i was like that has a boy  a bit slow in coming forward and it can cause problems i know  but its handy to be able to take care of yourself in todays world he will make a lot of new freinds has well your find the instucters at these places are more then helpfull and who knows he may well go on to be very good at one of these martial sports  regaurds   jim

the exact same thing happend to my son but it turned out very badly as i should have stepped in befor i did ,you must never push him when asking how his day went only get him in boxing clubs if he wants it  if like my boy he has no malishosness in him he will not want to learn how to fight find the bully at school (bear with me on this ) or the kids that tend to be popular and go see them or there parents and ask them to sort of keep an eye on your boy as you are worried about him this will have  the affect that these kids will then make sure he is not bullied and it works but for my son it was too late as he was put in hospital with stab wounds he is now 23 and just diagnosed with autism last week and that took me 20 years to get any none to listen to me but he never leaves his room the damage was done shame as he is a wierd but great kid 6'8 and 21 stone but still sweet sometimes look really good luck but do keep an eye just in case  i hope for protection for the little one x

Hi,

My 8 year old son had the same problem last year. Although he is loud and boisterous at home, he is very shy, quiet and hard-working at school. He had a falling-out with his only friend, and though the friend turned no-one against him, he was left to play on his own at break-times. As you can imagine it broke my heart to hear my child say this, but I spoke to the school, and they were very helpful in dealing with the matter (but not in an obvious way, which can usual do more harm than good). I also asked the angels to watch over him, and to hopefully send a new playmate his way - which they did. My son is still a shy, quiet, hard-working child, but his new friends have come to accept that, and with their help (and the angels) he is now joining in at break-times, talking to others, and is even on the school football team.

I hope this has helped to bring some comfort, and I hope things improve for your son very soon.

hiya, i have a 9year old son who used to be a bit of a loner and iv witnessed kids teasing him, iv noticed that he cant seem to engage in conversations properly and i have to help him out with his sentences which is why he probablys doesnt have many friends so i let him join after school classes ie football, gardening club etc to help him engage more with kids. i think in the past year, even though he still struggles with saying sentences he has more friends yet still gets teased but he has the confidence to stand up to the people that tease him also im not saying this is a remedy but i recently got an akita pup which has made him much more popular with people at school. he gets kids talk to him that never used to lol 

Hi Missp1974,

I noticed that you posted some time ago about your son's problem at school and you've recieved some good advice from other forum members. How have things worked out? I wanted to mention an idea I had while reading through the posts. Sometimes friendships need some help to get off the ground and something that really helped my quiet child was play dates. It's easier for quiet kids to open up and let potential friends get to know them if it's just the two of them playing together at home. Perhaps you could ask your son which boy he'd like to be friends with and pass a letter to their mum, inviting him for tea after school? You could do this with lots of kids and see who he connects with best. Teachers can sometimes put lonely kids together too - this happened with my daughter and her current best friend. Who knows, maybe there's another lonely child in the class who could use a friend.

I hope things have improved for your boy, if not, I hope this idea helps.

Unicorn.